The many chaos in marriages today can be
solved by women.Wives should learn to follow Biblical principles not self
principles.I have always believed any woman that knows how to submit to a man
and boost his ego will have less problem.
I heard a woman of God years back who told all wives that
they should learn to appeal to their husbands as a mini-god instead of
challenging their authority. When a daughter of God fulfills all righteousness
and the man refuses to change,if he is a believer in Christ,God knows how to
break such.
Many Christian wives will always complain about their
husbands attitudes. Your complains do not solve anything.Men are not emotional
by nature but women are. When you take to nagging and quarrelling with him or
depriving him of that thing,a man who loves you may respond back to you less or
same with the quarrels.But when you see a man who just keeps quiet and pretend
as if you are not there or just walks out of the house you had better be
careful.In most cases this is no sign of holiness.
I know this might sound fallacious.While some men can be
impossible,women have a lot to do in creating harmony and peace at home. There
are many things in marriage that prayers can't solve. I have seen so many wives
attending various prayer meetings to bring back peace to their homes,while it
worked for some,majority are not seeing result.Why? THEIR IS NO DELIVERANCE OR
PRAYERS FOR CHARACTERS. That is something you just have to work upon. Women
should use the energy they use in complaining,nagging and fighting to seek for
divine wisdom.
Your marriage is not broken by any external force but by
internal force-YOU AND YOUR MAN.Any woman that understands her place in the
life of a man will have less problem.Many will argue that men are the problems
of marriages.While I may not argue with such line of thought,I will like to ask
this question which I often ask women in churches or those who come for
counselling.CAN ANY WOMAN EVEN ON FACEBOOK TELL ME HOW EVE WAS ABLE TO MAKE
ADAM EAT THE FORBIDDEN FRUIT EVEN THOUGH ADAM KNEW IT WAS THE FRUIT?I will love
to hear answers please.
If you can figure it out,you will know the power you
women have to influence your husbands.But,many of you choose to use the power
negatively to the detriment of the home.
The truth is many of you don't know how to make your man
feel on top of the world.Am not talking about intimacy now.Intimacy is not
love.If you think because your man have it with you regularly you had better
think twice.I have seen men who are very intimate with their wives and at the
same time with many women outside.
You just have to learn to be everything your man wants you
to be as long as it does not violate the Word of God.The so-called little
things he complains about and you just overlook it,or the attitudes he detest
and you keep doing it.
Many women choose to rub shoulders with their men.Men are
proud by nature and very egocentric,myself not excluded.Treat them like GENERAL
IN THE ARMY.They want to feel and know they are in charge of their homes and
not the other way round.That does not make you a slave as I have heard some
women complain.
They make mistakes though which is as a result of the way
women approach issues with them.Women have intuition and can have better
judgement atimes.But when you try to force it on a man,it may not go down
lightly.Some may know you are saying the right thing but because of your manner
of approach and their own ego,they will still do what they want to do and the
whole family will face the consequence.
The best way to tame a man is not by fighting him,reporting
him to some or all,making him feel bad or comparing him with other men in order
to abuse or challenge him.The best way to do it is to become a virtuous woman
and someone who talks softly but persuasively with wisdom.
Men who tend to be promiscuous,though I don't expect such to
be in a Christian home but these days we are seeing such even among ministers
of the Gospel.While such act is abomination,women will do well to find out what
went wrong.It's easy to claim that charm was used on your men but the truth is
that in most cases charm is not involved but you are responsible. That is hard
one I know.While such men will face their judgement but the pain and sorrows
you go through could have been avoided if you played your roles very well.No
faithful man suddenly wake up and become promiscuous.It's a process activated
by the negative trend at home.
Lastly,CAN ANY WOMAN TELL ME WHY GOD CHOSE TO MAKE EVE FROM
THE RIB OF ADAM AND NOT FROM ANY OTHER PART OF THE BODY OR FLESH AND ALSO THE
SIGNIFICANCE OF THAT PART THAT WAS USED BY GOD?
You can contact me
on:
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