Tuesday, 18 June 2013

WOMEN AND MARRIAGE







The many chaos in marriages today can be solved by women.Wives should learn to follow Biblical principles not self principles.I have always believed any woman that knows how to submit to a man and boost his ego will have less problem.

I heard a woman of God years back who told all wives that they should learn to appeal to their husbands as a mini-god instead of challenging their authority. When a daughter of God fulfills all righteousness and the man refuses to change,if he is a believer in Christ,God knows how to break such.

Many Christian wives will always complain about their husbands attitudes. Your complains do not solve anything.Men are not emotional by nature but women are. When you take to nagging and quarrelling with him or depriving him of that thing,a man who loves you may respond back to you less or same with the quarrels.But when you see a man who just keeps quiet and pretend as if you are not there or just walks out of the house you had better be careful.In most cases this is no sign of holiness.

I know this might sound fallacious.While some men can be impossible,women have a lot to do in creating harmony and peace at home. There are many things in marriage that prayers can't solve. I have seen so many wives attending various prayer meetings to bring back peace to their homes,while it worked for some,majority are not seeing result.Why? THEIR IS NO DELIVERANCE OR PRAYERS FOR CHARACTERS. That is something you just have to work upon. Women should use the energy they use in complaining,nagging and fighting to seek for divine wisdom.

Your marriage is not broken by any external force but by internal force-YOU AND YOUR MAN.Any woman that understands her place in the life of a man will have less problem.Many will argue that men are the problems of marriages.While I may not argue with such line of thought,I will like to ask this question which I often ask women in churches or those who come for counselling.CAN ANY WOMAN EVEN ON FACEBOOK TELL ME HOW EVE WAS ABLE TO MAKE ADAM EAT THE FORBIDDEN FRUIT EVEN THOUGH ADAM KNEW IT WAS THE FRUIT?I will love to hear answers please.

If you can figure it out,you will know the power you women have to influence your husbands.But,many of you choose to use the power negatively to the detriment of the home.

The truth is many of you don't know how to make your man feel on top of the world.Am not talking about intimacy now.Intimacy is not love.If you think because your man have it with you regularly you had better think twice.I have seen men who are very intimate with their wives and at the same time with many women outside.

You just have to learn to be everything your man wants you to be as long as it does not violate the Word of God.The so-called little things he complains about and you just overlook it,or the attitudes he detest and you keep doing it.

Many women choose to rub shoulders with their men.Men are proud by nature and very egocentric,myself not excluded.Treat them like GENERAL IN THE ARMY.They want to feel and know they are in charge of their homes and not the other way round.That does not make you a slave as I have heard some women complain.
They make mistakes though which is as a result of the way women approach issues with them.Women have intuition and can have better judgement atimes.But when you try to force it on a man,it may not go down lightly.Some may know you are saying the right thing but because of your manner of approach and their own ego,they will still do what they want to do and the whole family will face the consequence.

The best way to tame a man is not by fighting him,reporting him to some or all,making him feel bad or comparing him with other men in order to abuse or challenge him.The best way to do it is to become a virtuous woman and someone who talks softly but persuasively with wisdom.

Men who tend to be promiscuous,though I don't expect such to be in a Christian home but these days we are seeing such even among ministers of the Gospel.While such act is abomination,women will do well to find out what went wrong.It's easy to claim that charm was used on your men but the truth is that in most cases charm is not involved but you are responsible. That is hard one I know.While such men will face their judgement but the pain and sorrows you go through could have been avoided if you played your roles very well.No faithful man suddenly wake up and become promiscuous.It's a process activated by the negative trend at home.

Lastly,CAN ANY WOMAN TELL ME WHY GOD CHOSE TO MAKE EVE FROM THE RIB OF ADAM AND NOT FROM ANY OTHER PART OF THE BODY OR FLESH AND ALSO THE SIGNIFICANCE OF THAT PART THAT WAS USED BY GOD?

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Thursday, 13 June 2013

LESSON FROM MY BEST FILM KUNGU PANDA PART 1 AND 2





Master to Ugwe: "This Panda can't defeat Tylon,He is too fat and lazy".

Ugwe to Master: "You just have to believe in him.He has been chosen".

The Master decided to believe in the Panda and trained him even with doubts in his mind.

The lesson,Ugwe can be likened to God who believes in His children as special even though they don't see themselves that way due to past spiritual or physical failures,just like Gideon in Judges 6.

The Master stands for spiritual leaders who are meant to train people who are considered worthless and poor to become great godly vessels unto God.But because of mind blindness,pride,favouritsm etc decided to look down on such and choose those they feel or believe can do the job even though God has not chosen them.Just like the other 5 warriors the Master chose.

The Panda stands for those who see themselves as worthless,unworthy and sinful even though they have accepted Christ but still struggling with their past,present weakness,fear and doubts.To be continued.


PART 2:

Famous 5:Master Sheifu!What is the fat Panda doing here?Why was he chosen instead of us that you have trained for the job?

Master Sheifu: Don't worry by morning he will give up and go back.

Panda(Paying obeisance):The Famous five!Am so honoured to meet with you.I have heard so much about you.

Famous 5:They looked at him with disgust and disdain.

At their lodge.
Tigress:You don't belong here.

THE LESSON:The Famous 5 are those in life especially in the church who look down on the chosen ones with disgust and feel threatened by their presence,though may be poor but their zeal is unquestionable.

Master Sheifu as I said in lesson 1 are spiritual leaders who are partial and blind spiritual who prefer their own discipled unchosen warriors to the God's chosen ones...
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Tuesday, 4 June 2013

STOP THIS RUBBISH TALK



 Why the so many fuse about this devil Doctor Francis? Stop talking about the devil.Talk about the love and power of Christ.Hmm!With all your knowledge of the love and power of Jesus,you still remain a compromiser.
Living a carnal worldly life and disobeying The Word of God.You are also agonizing in pain because of that burden that has defied you and your pastor.
Keep deceiving yourself.Their is no true spiritual victory without a balanced knowledge of both the positive and the negative.As you have the negatively charged electrons with the positively charged protons in an atom so you have same in the spirit realm.
The sound truth is that,
"THE LIGHT SHINNETH IN DARKNESS AND THE DARKNESS CANNOT COMPREHEND IT" 1 John 1:4
That fornication,adultery,masturbation,lying,immoral thoughts,lusts etc you live in.Let your spiritual eyes be opened to see the demons behind them,no one will tell you to stop it.It's then you will understand,
"ABSTAIN FROM EVERY APPEARANCE OF EVIL"
The devil knows too well how to get you cheaply. Are you surprised of what is going on in your spiritual life? The many rising and falling spiritual lifestyle you have come to adopt as the norm?
With the spiritual bondage you find yourself in that has defied all your efforts of quoting the Scriptures and confessing what you have been taught to confess with your shabby prayer life void of spiritual knowledge and direction,are you really happy with your walk with God?
It's high time you open your mind and accept the truth that satan is real and has assigned his little puppies to make sure you don't become that spiritual in order to stop you from emmitting that powerful godly spiritual energy of God's kingdom.
"FOR THE DEVIL AS A ROARING LION MOVETH TRO AND FRO LOOKING FOR WHOM TO DEVOUR" 1 Peter 5:8
You have no idea of the threat you pose to the satanic kingdom by your strong relationship with the Holy Ghost and the Word of God. Why do you think many Christians are weak spiritually,living a compromising and sinful lives?
We are in the endtime,the devil knows he has a short time. He has to weaken the body of Christ so that he can gain entrance into the church to control believers via false and unbalanced Biblical teachings.
It's high time you take hold on God and pray that He will set you on fire and use you to bring the light of the Gospel into the hearts of people who are held captive by satan and his puppies. Till I come your way again,remember this great truth.JESUS IS THE CHIEF SUPREME COMMANDER OF THE UNIVERSE.

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