THE FOCAL POINT OF CHANGE MANY DON'T TAKE SERIOUS

One of the greatest problem of humans is desiring to move forward with their lives but think backward.Their lives are still wired to the past.With all the efforts they make about changing their status in life,they end up in the same circle they tried to break away from.

Your life can never never move in the direction of your plans but in the direction of the thoughts and imaginations behind the plans or guiding those plans. The painful truth you need to realize is that your life gravitates towards your predominant thoughts.
Proverbs 16:3 says,

"Commit thy works unto the Lord and he shall ESTABLISH the THOUGHTS of THINE HEART"

It is very clear that God answers you base on your thoughts behind your prayers or plans.When Solomon told God what he wanted,do you know what God told him in 2Chronicles 1:11?

"And the Lord said unto Solomon because THIS WAS IN YOUR HEART..."

Are you getting this point?

Solomon's request was in line with his thoughts.His life gravitated towards what he asked from God. God honoured his thoughts and not his words.Proverbs 23:7b states,

"AS A MAN THINKETH IN HIS HEART SO IS HE"

This is why any Christian that wants to change his or her life must take the transformation of the mind serious with the Word of God.Romans 12:1-2

Satan is not as powerful as we think he is.He knows how to keep our minds in the past so that we don't move forward into our divine destinies. When he succeeds in wiring your life to the past it becomes difficult for your emotional energy to induce your faith to believe God for a greater tomorrow.It's for this reason Isaiah 43:18 says,

"REMEMBER YE NOT THE FORMER THINGS,NEITHER CONSIDER THE THINGS OF OLD,BEHOLD I DO A NEW THING ..."

You have a lot of work to do before you can experience the supernatural power of God that can change your life for good.

*You must begin to think the higher thoughts of God Isaiah 55:9-11

*You must have the mind of Christ Philippians 2:5

*Your thoughts must dwell on godliness and good things Philippians 4:8

* You must renew your mind with the Word and Positive godly materials Romans 12:2

*Your mind must constantly dwell on the plans of God for your life Jeremiah 29:11

*You must constantly meditate on the Word of God Psalm 1:2

*You must think too much about your plans,envision and visualize it until you can feel the impulse and emotions of such.Proverbs 16:3

If you can take the pain to work on these things for a month I can guarantee you that your life will change because your life will easily attract the power of God.

 

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THE UNTOLD TRUTH ABOUT MARITAL COMMUNICATION

 


Communication is the lifeline for any successful relationship be it spiritual or physical. In marriage communication is the lifeline of marital harmony. It's the fuel that ignites the passion of love and care in the marriage institution. A lot has been said about communication in marriage by great marital counselors yet the chaos witness daily in marital crises and breakdown is greatly alarming.

Communication in marriage is not limited to vocal expression alone, although that is highly important. I am looking at the untold dimension of marital communication which is really the cause of marital breakdown. Mind communication is the greatest secret to marital success.

While one may express feelings in words, actions it may not really be the true reflection of what is going on within the partner. As a result of this, tension builds up within which alters the direction and energy of thoughts. Marriage is sustained by thoughts and imaginations not really by outward actions. When couples' thoughts are harmonious, that is the mindset as per the marriage is filled with positive projections, it is difficult for such marriage to collapse.

One can therefore say the true pillar of marital success is mind-communication. Thoughts are energies that can be used positively or negatively. A certain trend of thoughts brought the marriage into existence, it will require equal or greater thoughts to sustain the marriage and enjoy marital bliss. Your marriage becomes your thoughts with time. There are lots of things couples are not vocal about but project such through the mind. Your partner becomes what you think predominantly about him. This is just the truth. Those things you say or think in your mind about your spouse can either solidify your marriage or weaken your marriage.

The unspoken word within is stronger than the spoken word without. The unspoken word within is empowered by the will and feeling aspect of the subconscious mind. When you see couples quarrel and one of them becomes really angry and making negative remarks about the other partner that is only a fraction of what has been built within. It's like a volcanic eruption. The one you see is only a fraction of what is submerged within.

When your mindset becomes corrupt with anger, hatred, jealousy, bitterness etc. , you are likely to see loopholes to assert your negative mindset. Unknown to you dangerous communication is going on between you and your partner. Your partner may not be aware initially but gradually he will begin to respond in kind, especially if you have a stronger mindset power that him. When he begins to respond to your communication unconsciously that will then reinforce your beliefs about the negative conviction you are having. This can also be from the man to the woman. Since your mind communication has become negative, it will affect the way you now view things in your marriage. You begin to get what you expect not what you truly want or desire. In reality, your partner automatically meets your expectation.

The more negative your mind becomes, the more negative your marriage becomes also. The issue is not with your partner but with you. It means you need to take a sober look of your mindset towards your marriage and change it. Chaotic marriage can work if couples will humble themselves and be sincere about their true inner feelings to one another. Express the negative feelings you are having to your partner, no matter how hurting it may be. In most cases your mindset has been controlled by assumptions not reality.

When all have been said, couples should forgive each other and ask for the grace of God for courage to keep the mind thinking and communicating the right thing. The mind should be centered on reading The Bible, good books and tapes. Above all couples should learn to practice meditation and visualization. See your partner the way you want her to be and with time you will see such manifesting in your partner's life. The untold marital mind communication when handled wisely will produce great marital tranquility.

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