Showing posts with label spouse. Show all posts
Showing posts with label spouse. Show all posts

Saturday, 7 March 2015

Excerpts from My Book "Prophetic Warfare Prayers Solution for Marital Chaos"

                                     
             Chapter 3
  How to have a Joyful Home
 

Having a joyful home is not impossible. The purpose of getting married is to have a joyful home and live a fulfilled life but unfortunately the opposite is the case today. Many were joyful before marriage only to lose such after few months or some few weeks or days in the marriage. It suddenly dawned on them they were better been singles than been married.
 

The truth about marriage is that many don’t know that what led them into the marriage is the same thing that will lead you through it. So it is of utmost importance to know what led you into it. By this I am referring to your strong convictions (reasons) for marrying your spouse. Your convictions play a major role in the level and quality of joy you will experience in your home.
 

Your convictions determine your excitement in your marriage.
 

Your convictions determine your level of endurance.
 

Your convictions determine the level and growth of your love for your spouse.
 

Your convictions determine how well you would be poised to defend your spouse against anyone and anything.
 

Your convictions determine how you will live with your spouse strengths and weaknesses.
 

Your convictions determine how you will bond well with your spouse.
 

Your convictions determine everything that goes on in the marriage.
 

Your convictions determine how well you will fight to keep your marriage from external or internal destroyers.
 

Convictions are very powerful tools that help you work on your marriage no matter how tough it might seem or be. Unfortunately, many convictions people have today are not spiritually inclined but carnally motivated. Carnality might stand physical heats but it is useless under spiritual threats. This is the reason many Christian homes are been torn apart by the forces of darkness.
 

“13 When Jesus came into the coasts of Caesarea Philippi, he asked his disciples, saying, Whom do men say that I the Son of man am?
14 And they said, Some say that thou art John the Baptist: some, Elias; and others, Jeremias, or one of the prophets. 
15 He saith unto them, But whom say ye that I am? 
16 And Simon Peter answered and said, Thou art the Christ, the Son of the living God.”
Matthew 16:13

The above incident can be applied to marriage.  Jesus asked His disciples,
 

“ Whom do men say that I the Son of man am?”
 

The question might seem strange but it was very important to Jesus.
 

What are people’s opinions about your spouse?
 

What are people’s perceptions about your spouse?
 

These are critical questions that many have failed to answer and it has led to the collapse of their homes. People’s perceptions or opinions about your spouse may not be right in the real sense of it. But many have allowed such to cause confusions in their marital lives.
 

The disciples gave Jesus people’s opinions and perceptions about Him and He then asked them,
 

“He saith unto them, But whom say ye that I am?”
 

This question was necessarily if the divine relationship with them must grow and be sustained. This is the critical question many couples fail to answer.
 

Who is my spouse?
 

You might think you know your spouse but most of our knowing falls under carnality because you need to understand your spouse beyond the physical features. Apostle Peter replied,
 

“And Simon Peter answered and said, Thou art the Christ, the Son of the living God.”
 

Awesome revelation! This is what must take place in your marriage if you ever want to enjoy it as God intends. You must know your spouse from the spiritual dimension and not just from the physical or carnal dimension only. When you have divine illumination about who your spouse really is in God struggling to live at peace and in harmony with him or her will gradually become easy. This is where we fail as Christians because the devil makes us to concentrate on the physical more than the spiritual.
 

You need a divine revelation about your spouse as a believer in Christ Jesus. When Peter gave that revelation Jesus said,
 

“17 And Jesus answered and said unto him, Blessed art thou, Simon Bar-jona: for flesh and blood hath not revealed it unto thee, but my Father which is in heaven.
18 And I say also unto thee, That thou art Peter, and upon this rock I will build my church; and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it.”
Matthew 16:17-18
  

This is very deep and insightful. What Peter said was not just mere words from his mind but was divinely inspired from above.

“…for flesh and blood hath not revealed it unto thee, but my Father which is in heaven."
 

Until you see your spouse from the spiritual dimension you might not appreciate his or her worth. We tend to judge our spouses by their physical features and weaknesses but that is totally misleading in the marital life. How did Peter get that revelation about Christ and how can you get the same revelation about your spouse?
 

“9 But as it is written, Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man, the things which God hath prepared for them that love him.
10 But God hath revealed them unto us by his Spirit: for the Spirit searcheth all things, yea, the deep things of God.” 

1Corinthians 2:9-10
 

It takes the Holy Spirit to help you get this revelation about your spouse. It means you must have a strong tie with Him for Him to reveal the spiritual dimension of your spouse as he or she is in Christ Jesus. Without the Holy Spirit it becomes impossible to receive this divine illumination. This is one of the missions of the Holy Ghost, to reveal things to us.
 

“12 I have yet many things to say unto you, but ye cannot bear them now.
13 Howbeit when he, the Spirit of truth, is come, he will guide you into all truth: for he shall not speak of himself; but whatsoever he shall hear, that shall he speak: and he will shew you things to come.” 
John 16:12-13
 

Your spouse as a believer in Christ is one of the packages God has prepared for you that love Him. If only you have this understanding you will do everything possible and impossible to maintain peace in your home. This is why when you have revelations about who your spouse really is it becomes a solid conviction that will help you stand the test of time.


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Thursday, 20 November 2014

MARRIAGE,CONVICTIONS AND SOLIDITY

 When a marriage lacks strong convictions it will always end in stronger confusion.

I see so many chaotic homes today because the couples have no solid reasons for marrying their partners.

If your attraction to your partner is not base on what is within,external pressures will always define your love for your partner.

When you look at your partner,what do you see,the physical body or the virtues?

When couples hate each other beyond the normal frequency(i.e in moment of anger or quarrel which shouldn't last at most a week),it calls for serious retrospect  of why the marriage was contracted in the first instance.

Constant frustration in marriage that leads to emotional turmoil is a reflection of a subtle deceit in one or two of the partners.

Marriage is base on love strengthen by values and respect for the other entity.True marital relationship has nothing to do with physical acquisitions.It has to do with divine acquisition.I'm talking from my personal experience.

The first 10 years of my marriage was really horrible.It was the one of hardship,suffering,poverty,ridicules etc.To give you a little scope of what I mean,we slept on cement sewn bags when we got married with wrappers as our pillows.

In all those years,our relationship was awesome.Yes we quarreled but not like the ones we see today.In those years we squatted with my late mum for almost 3 years in a room and parlour self-contain and she never saw us quarrel.I mean this with all sense of honesty.Our main quarrels started three years ago when I started seeing little money but didn't last long before the power of love and convictions swallowed such up.We still quarrel once in a while but it doesn't last hours before it becomes history.

When your convictions for marrying your spouse is not divinely inspired for believers or nature inspired for others it will always have serious problems and might end in divorce.

There are two types of divorce I researched upon and they are real.They are:

1.PHYSICAL DIVORCE:This is when the marriage folds up and each partner finds their "square roots". This is more common with the whites and it is making serious inroads into Africa.

2.MIND DIVORCE:This is the worst form of divorce.This is when couples still stay together even though they have lost love and respect for each other.All activities have become mechanical.There is no more passion for each other.

Such have become strangers living under the same roof.They know the marriage has been buried but they don't want the world to know and see the coffin.They are just saving faces and putting on cosmetic smiles for people not to suspect anything.

They are no longer sleeping on the same bed if they have extra rooms in their home.If peradventure they are,one is facing east and the other west.They might sometimes have intimacy,but it's just to release the drive in them.

This kind of divorce is common among believers and especially ministers.While the men are the major culprits in this the women have their own shares also.

Such men go out to find the love(lust) they've lost in their marriages.It's a common thing for Christians and sorrowfully enough for ministers to have external wives and concubines nowadays.

The major dilemma here is there was no foundation in the marriage from the onset.How you enter a marriage will determine how you navigate through it.

There are many who shouldn't have married themselves today.There are many whose marriages will still go down the drain.I can boldly tell you as an authority in spiritual issues that over 70% of marriages have no divine backings.God is not involved and what God has not joined together can be put asunder by anything. 

For believers who are in this category contemplating of going for the physical divorce,you can't except on Biblical reasons of which some are, 

1.Habitual unrepentant adultery.

2.Your relationship with God is heavily threatened.

3.Death of your partner.

4.When your life is in serious danger

Outside this,anyone that divorces will land in hell.For those who have this kind of divorce,you can always seek the face of God for divine intervention and restoration.That first love you had may be base on the physical but the Holy Ghost can help you to convert it to the spiritual and change your mindset totally.

With God all things are possible.Hand over your marriage and yourselves to God.Let Him turn your marriage around with His creative power of love.

You must love your spouse unconditionally as Jesus loves you even with your weaknesses.Forgive your spouse and let go of the past hurts.Focus on the future and what you can achieve together with your spouse.Become the love-doves you were before.Help your partner to overcome the weaknesses and celebrate him.

Marriage is not a contract but a covenant thing and has no expiring date.Marriage is only here on earth and it's one of the criteria that will really determine if you would even make heaven.God help us all.


You can get my book on PROPHETIC GUERRILLA WARFARE SERIES VOLUME 1 if you have serious issues in your marriage. The prophetic warfare prayers there for troubled marriage will certainly restore peace in your home. Just go to 

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There is hope for your marriage if you allow God to have His way in it.


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Saturday, 19 October 2013

DESTROYING SATANIC WITCHCRAFT COBWEBS PART 2

WHAT IS THE PURPOSE OF SUCH EVIL COBWEBS
The agents of darkness use this medium to affect many lives because they know many are ignorant and will just take that as a natural phenomenon.
From the physical spider’s explanation, the spiritual purpose of the spiritual cobwebs is to:

1.    Tie down one’s destiny and make it stagnant.
2.    To enslave one’s spiritual life.
3.    To cover one’s glory so that one will not be seen by helpers of destiny.
4.    To cause disfavor and bad-luck. Such people will always experience big time disappointment.
5.    To cause hatred in one’s life from others especially helpers.
6.    To make one remain single for life as suitor may never see the real you but a different you that will not attract them to you for marriage.
7.    To cause division in one’s marriage and make one’s spouse to turn against one.
8.    To cause business breakdown, loss in sales and even increase debt in one’s life and business
9.    To deny one of getting job even though one has passed the interview.
10.    To hinder or slow down one’s progress in life.
11.    To cause slow growth in the church as a pastor.
12.    To make good members to turn against one eventually in the ministry.
13.    To make ministerial helpers stop helping one.
14.    To cover one’s spiritual gifts so that it will not manifest or people will not recognize of appreciate such.
15.    To make one’s ministerial spiritual life to be below average.
16.    It can cause miscarriages.
17.    To control one’s life and destiny.
18.    To capture one spiritually and make such a slave.
19.    To imprison one and eventually sacrifice such on their altar.
20.    To render one useless in life.

There are so many things such evil cobwebs do in the lives of people. Like I said earlier, the cobwebs can be physical or spiritual. If such is not dealt with, it will adversely affect one’s glory and future. You don’t take chances with such things. You fight to destroy such from your life. Don’t allow anyone to deceive you including your pastor that it, means nothing.
 Can’t you see the correlation between such events and your life?

How long will you keep experiencing constant disappointments and failures because of such evils?

It’s time to rise up and kick those puppies out of your life.
  You can overcome because the Bible declares in 1 John 3:8,

“FOR THIS SAME PURPOSE THE SON OF GOD WAS MANIFESTED TO DESTROY THE WORKS OF THE DEVIL”

Jesus has conquered the devil and has given us power to overcome the host of hell and all of their evil operations.

“BEHOLD I GIVE UNTO YOU POWER TO TRAMPLE UPON THE SCORPIONS AND SERPENTS AND NOTHING SHALL BY ANY MEANS HURT YOU” Luke 10:19.

You don’t need to fear the devil, wizards, cultists, witches, warlords etc. We have the greatest power in the universe.

“YE ARE OF GOD LITTLE CHILDREN AND HAVE OVERCOME THEM BECAUSE GREATER IS HE THAT IS IN YOU THAN hE THAT IS IN THE WORLD” 1 John 4:4

If you are a genuine child of God, your victory is guaranteed in Christ Jesus if only you will rise up and follow the prophetic instructions that will be given to you.

“FOR WHATSOEVER IS BORN OF GOD OVERCOMETH THE WORLD: AND THIS IS THE VICTORY THAT OVERCOMETH THE WORLD, EVEN OUR FAITH.”

Are you ready for the great showdown with those defeated forces again?
Then prepare greatly for THE PROPHETIC GUERRILLA WARFARE SEASON 5- DESTROYING SATANIC WITCHCRAFT COBWEBS.


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Thursday, 22 August 2013

RE-DIRECT THAT THING PLEASE

My dear that strong feelings you are having for that stranger that is growing stronger by the day should be channeled back to your spouse.

Don't share that feeling with a stranger.The one at home deserves it.Yes,am talking to you.Their is nothing under those clothes that your spouse does not have.

Redirect that energy back into your home and strengthen the relationship with your spouse.That puppy wants to cheat you out of God's will and give you everlasting sorrow.

Remember that was the same feeling you had for your spouse when you first met.Go back to your spouse and take a long look at the nudeness and tell yourself,this is still the love of my life.

Let the old time adventures rekindle your sensory neurons once more.Let the flame of those past episodes be replayed in your mind.Ask yourself what went wrong?

That stranger will only drain your energy and heap God's curses and satan's woes on you.

Look at your spouse once again and speak out loudly,"YOU ARE STILL THE LOVE OF MY LIFE". Hold your partner closely and plant that heaven's kiss on the lips.Let the feeling be magnetic and sensational.Tell yourself,"I AM FOR YOU AND YOU ALONE". Let your heart explode with the joy of God and the blessedness of your union.HAPPY MARRIED LIFE.


FOR MORE SPIRITUAL HELP YOU CAN CONTACT ME ON:
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                                JESUS 
            REMAINS THE 
      CHIEF SUPREME COMMANDER 
           OF THE UNIVERSE